Are You Looking For Love In All The Wrong Places?
I have had a number of people reach out to me lately asking for advice about finding a loving partner, and more specifically, recommendations on where to go to meet that special someone.
This is a super common question and I know I asked myself the same thing years ago when I was trying to navigate my own love life.
So where does an amazing, successful, fun, happy, inspiring soul like to go to find that special someone to share this awesome adventure of life with?
The truth is there are tons of different places and ways to find a partner and there is no ‘one’ way or ‘right’ way of doing it. The key is to try something, or a combination of things, that resonate with you.
For instance, you can try online dating, joining a club, trying new classes, doing things you enjoy, through friends or your network, etc. The key is to be true to you.
If you are like many you probably have already tried most of the above mentioned and although they may have been helpful for meeting new friends perhaps they haven’t yet been to helpful for you in the love department.
So although there is no simple, quick fix answer of where to meet someone here are a few things to that will help you on your journey…
- Be sure to love and embrace who you are. This is key (both online and offline).
If you are online, be sure to create a profile that is in alignment with you and that embraces and highlights the amazing things that you are up to and that make you, you.
Ask yourself, am I currently hiding a piece of myself or not fully owning my inner power or essence?
By taking the time to ask these questions you are able to find clues and gaps as to where you may need to do some inner work.
Take the time to love yourself, embrace who you are, and own being you.
- See yourself as an asset.
The more you can start to see yourself as an asset and as a loving amazing person the more you’ll be open to attracting one.
You won’t create what you want, you create what you believe. Believe that someone would be super lucky to be with you. Because it’s true!
By seeing yourself as an asset you will increase your self-worth and start attracting people who resonate with your frequency.
- Know that you are not the only one.
Although some days you may feel like an alien and that it’s hard to believe that there is someone out there for you. The truth is that you are NOT alone and that there are other amazing souls out there who would love to be with you. I really want you to hear this. Despite how different, alone, or misunderstood you may feel some days, just know that you are not the only one and that someone out there is looking for someone just like you.
For instance, a friend of mine who is a very accomplished businesswoman, athlete, and spiritual superstar shared with me how for years she felt like she was an alien and that no one would want to be with her because of (insert whatever story you want here)…once she released this story and embraced her awesomeness that’s when her partner came into her life.
The key is to release these beliefs and subconscious fears because you can be at the right place, do all the right things, say you want what you want but if you don’t believe you are worthy then it’s likely not going to happen. Remember you don’t create what you want in life you create what you believe.
This is where it may be helpful to do some inner work to see what beliefs you have around relationships, loving yourself, and believing that you can be in a healthy, happy relationship.
If you are wondering if you have some blocks around owning your worth, embracing who you are and being open to a loving relationship feel free to sign up for a free 30-min superpower session where we can explore where you are at, where you want to go and identify what’s potentially blocking you so that you can take the necessary steps to attract your dream partner.
You are so loved!
Love & Light,