Pay Yourself First!

Andrea Parker



What is your relationship with money?

How do you feel about money?

What does money mean to you?

How does it make you feel good?

What does money represent to you?

The truth is if you want to increase your abundance so that you can have, be and do the things that your heart desires, you must upgrade your money beliefs.

It’s essential that your beliefs support who you’re becoming and not who you were.

One inspiring way to elevate your abundance and attract more money (aka energy) is to pay yourself first.

I learned and adopted this principle years ago, and it has been game-changing for many of my clients and me.

I am not a financial planner, and this is not financial advice; it’s more so abundance and self-worth tools! This is key because the more you love yourself and own your worth, the more money you’ll attract, create and circulate.

One fundamental way to increase your self-worth and deserve-ability, as well as your abundance, is to set up automatic savings.


It is very common to experience fears of scarcity, old patterns and limiting beliefs regarding money when you go to pay yourself first or increase the amount you pay yourself.

For example, “What if I don’t have enough, who am I to do these things, I can’t keep money, or I can’t attract that much money, what if I don’t have enough to pay my bills, where is the money going to come from, etc. etc..”

This is normal! That being said, those are just stories. It’s time to rewire them!

Here are five simple steps to elevate your abundance…

Step 1:
Identify what your current story about money is.

Step 2:
Pay yourself first! Have this set up automatically!

Step 3:
Continue to increase the amount you save. I like to upgrade mine every 3 to 6 months. Start with an amount that feels in alignment with you.

Step 4:
What beliefs are popping up as you do this?

Step 5:
Take action steps to rewire and upgrade these beliefs.

If you find that you want to be earning more money, attract more abundance, have more financial freedom so you can do what you want, when you want. Odds are, it’s time to increase and uplevel your beliefs around money.

If this is something you are interested in learning more about, please let me know. I am thinking of creating a workshop around the idea of increasing your abundance and wealth (also your worthiness and beliefs associated with it).

I’d love to hear your feedback and more about what would help you create and live a life you love!

Please email me at [email protected] with any thoughts, insights or questions about money or abundance.